Thursday 22 August 2013

IT IS BETTER TO USE YOUR KNOWLEDGE AND EXPERIENCE TO SOLVE PROBLEMS THAN ASK OTHER PEOPLE FOR ADVICE. DO YOU AGREE OR DISAGREE?

         People nowadays tend to ask other people about advices and information. However, I think that people should use their own knowledge and experience rather than asking other people. There are many reasons why I think that knowledge and experience is better. It’s not other people’s lives, but yours. Also, not all advices and information would be accurate, and it might not be the best choice for your life. Lastly, you’re the one who shaped your inner body, no one knows you better than yourself.
         First, the life that you’re living now is yours, not somebody else’s. You should make your own decision and shape out your life by yourself. Many people ask for advices from their parents. This is not a bad idea, but if you think it wisely, it is actually bad. The parents that give you advices will not be there until you die. If you keep on relying on your parents, you will be left out because they will no longer be there when you’re old. People come and go, and they all have different types of background. Everyone’s lives are different. The advice that they give you might not be the perfect advice of your life. It is because it is based on their eyesights. They actually don’t know anything about you and your choices. They’re just giving advices from their own experiences. Advices come from experience, and to give advices, you have to use your knowledge and advices. Therefore, knowledge and experiences should be used instead of asking other people for help.
         Second, when most people ask for advices, they might not be the correct answer. There was one time when someone asked me about advices for asking a girl out. At that time, I was too lazy and didn’t pay much attention. So I said to just say anything you want. If the girl likes you, the girl will say yes. However, it was not his case. He told me that he was rejected for not preparing much. Sometimes, people can be wrong because of their carelessness, and the people that listen to that advice would suffer because of the wrong advice. Also, people have different minds and different heart. They don’t all feel the same. What the other people think might be wrong and your thinking might be the best choice. People should use their knowledge rather than asking other people for advices who doesn’t know much about you.

         Lastly, you’re the one who shaped your inner body for the whole life. No one knows you better than yourself. If you’re deciding on a hard topic and you want to ask an advice. The best advice is to ask yourself. You are the one who can make the choice, and you should not be influenced by other people’s advice. You have done it that way for your life. You should continue it because not everyone knows where you came from, what type of person you are, why you are deciding on a choice. No one knows you better than yourself. Even babies, when they experience new things, they repeat that over and over. Even as a baby, you start to develop your thinking skills, therefore, it is not the best choice to ask advice from other people. You should just ask yourself what choice you should make and follow it. The reason is because sometimes you might not have someone around you. If that happens, what are you left with? Yourself. Therefore, you should ask yourself and prepare for cases like that by simply asking yourself and following your heart.

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